Hello, I’m looking for a long term partner, who considers themselves a Sub or Sub leaning Switch. I'm looking for a loving relationship or good friendship with lots of kinky fun. Someone to chat about our days and geek stuff as much as kinky stuff. I don't mind starting online but looking to move to RL at one point.

A bit about me: I 'm male Dom leaning Switch (mostly dom these days) living in Burlington NJ. No kids, never married, do not drink (allergies) but am 420 friendly. I'm 48, 5’10, 230lbs (chubby) , decent looking but no model, have a long beard in the winter and short one in the summer.

On the normal side of my life I’m more of a geeky guy than a jock and would prefer to watch movies, shows or play a game over watching sports, Although I do enjoy hiking.

Some good examples of my favorite Media

Movies, Ravenous, Tucker and Dale vs Evil, Brain Donors

TV Shows : Sandman(netflix),Farscape ,Ranma ½, Primal

Games: Wow(no more) ,Overwatch, Hearthstone, Tekken, Street fighter.,D&D and Pathfinder( ran for about 3 years, thinking about running again)

For kinks they are wide and varied but for me the turn on is more control than pain, That is to say I like “Dominance and Submission” more then Sadomasochism, although I do love to take someone over my knee for a spanking(I mean who doesn’t?). I lean more toward the gentle Dom side of things but can turn it up if that's what's getting you off and getting you off is important to me. In return I expect getting me off to be important to you.

Some of the things I really enjoy are Orgasm control (a must), tease and denial, light embarrassment/humiliation/degradation, praise play, pet play, ABDL, wetting, begging, spanking, light bondage, light pain, Rping (can get detailed), Oral (love both giving and receiving) body worship / massage (giving and receiving), and aftercare.

What I am looking for

Cis woman

age and body type - Anything excluding extremely obese. I'm more concerned with matching interests than age or body type. An interest in or learning one of my hobbies is more important to me than having a great ass.

Kids: I'm good if you do or don't have any. If you have them I understand that ultimately they will take priority over anything we do.

Drugs and alcohol: No heavy drug use or alcohol abuse. Weed (I smoke) and light drinking are all good!

Communication: 1. I expect you to be open about your wants, needs and experience we have during our time together. 2. I expect you to communicated when you will and will not be

available. I do not take kindly to getting ghosted.

Relationship : NO CHEATERS! I'm ok with poly but have no desire to be the “other man”

Distance: be within an hour and a half of Burlington NJ. Work has me travel a lot in NJ so I don't have an issue driving but only to a point.

Anyway I hope this catches someone's eye and have a great and kinky night!