Me: (49, 5'7,170Lbs,SWM), recent Redmond WA resident as I just switched jobs/careers. I am probably most available to talk later in the evening. Willing to travel a to see the right person, but I do prefer to meet in public first, for both of our safety.

I have a varied list of hobbies and interest from tech, spirituality, gaming, history, and cooking. Thankfully I have successfully dodged the onset of a “dad bod” and I often get complimented about the shape of my rear. I’ve traveled to a long list of destinations, visits, as well as living abroad. I like to think that I picked up an interesting set views due to these experiences.

Someone recently described me as a soft daddy/service top, and I find that to be appropriate. To me, it describes the way in which I like to treat my partners. But I do enjoy being rough mean and nasty ONLY if that is a kink that feeds their desires. Central to my satisfaction is my partner's pleasure and arousal. If they want to be spanked and choked, then I will happily do so. If not, then I have little interest in it. Some of my most erotic experiences have been one-sided, where I've gone down on a partner, given her a mas(s)age, and gotten no 'reciprocation' in return. What I got out of it was the satisfaction of my partner's climaxes.

You: Idiosyncratic, and also aching for more (you don’t have to be attached, but if you are cheating you will need to be discreet). Similarly DDF and fully vaxxed, any height, any ethnicity and most body types besides SSBBW. Fat is fine (as in, “damn fine”), chubby is perfect, smaller is fun. But it’s all subjective, so shoot your shot! If you’re real tall, real short, real nerdy, you’ve got braces or you come from a repressed religious background, I definitely want to hear from you. Seems I have a bit of a type, so: cute, under-appreciated ladies to the front of the line.

I’m looking for someone that wants to build a connection. Ideally, I'd enjoy your company outside of the bedroom as well as inside of it, and we could see each other somewhat regularly, even if it's for relatively platonic activities, like cuddling up for a movie, cooking and sharing a meal together, gaming together in person or apart, and of course rampant teasing/messaging/chatting away an otherwise quiet evening.

Thanks for reading this far... if you are inclined to chat let me know you read the post by including your favorite flavor of ice cream in the intro.

P.S. No, I do not want your Sn*p or your K*K. If we’re gonna make it onto another platform, it’ll be only after we’ve vibed a good bit.