At least in my experience, this kink is the most rewarding while also being the most frustrating one to deal with. I think once you have a great experience, whatever that means to you, with a partner in her early 20s for instance in my case you get kinda hooked on it.

But then it's the worst to try to find a partner that is into this kink lol. For every real woman out there there's a hundred scammers, fakes, weird chat bots and guys pretending to be women. And on top of that this isn't exactly the most socially accepted kink so that adds to the "seedy" feel.

After reading posts on this sub it seems that younger women have a hard time hitting on older men, older men almost can't hit on younger women without coming off as massive creeps at least most of the time and online has become a minefield of scams.

I guess the lesson is to just pay attention to younger women you meet in real life, hope you catch their signals if and when they show interest and maybe the next exciting chapter can begin.