I’m obviously an older (56m) gentleman. I’ve dated and even married my last wife (whom I divorced in October 2023). Was 30 years younger. My most recent GF was 23 yrs younger. It’s almost a joke as in I’m a right of passage around my small-ish town. It’s only been a real issue once and the person in question made a big stink about her daughter (21f) having to work in the bar with pervs coming in *pointed at me.. during a council meeting… to my question, there is zero mistake about my romantic life, never had issue except that time and honestly never felt like the creepy old guy nor do I feel like I’ve been singled out.. But, I get approached and pretty heavily flirted with quite a lot… I’m avg in looks and physical attributes, I’m charming, I’m particularly clean (I t’s an ocd thing) but not a standout in any way. I have peers and honestly I have friends that try to set me up with their younger acquaintance. Even family members… daughters , nieces etc and yet there’s other guys my age around that ask me how or why or get shot down a lot …some of the women I’ve dated will tell me they are giving them the ick … what’s the delineating factor? And why is one attractive the other icky?