I'm really ready to do something so different. Having completed a long and very kinky bucket list, I find myself with a new one. This goes beyond the simple "I wanna hang out, fuck, date, smash m4f post/ad. Follow along with me here as I throw out a few highlights. While I'm not nearly a submissive male, I am seeking a very (orally receiving) aggressive,(one could say Dominant) or at best a switch type female. Neither am I a cuckold, however, there's certain aspects of the dynamic that could be incorporated. (Details are kinda complicated and there's no prerequisite). I am kinda into free use and could consider some sharing activities. I have some interests in caretaker, ddlg, dollification and bdsm (very experienced but not really a big prerequisite on that part. I can incorporate it in varied mild levels and standard negotiation applies, once again, this is more to accommodate a potential partner rather than the primary driver behind this post). For the bucket list, the caretaker and dollification aspects are more interesting. I'm quite bold enough for some public play and perhaps some mild CNC (negotiation). I could accommodate some cuckquean ideas too. In my life, I once knew a partner whom could orgasm from breast play alone, I'd like to drive into that. I have some skill as a squirt trainer. (If that's an attractive dynamic to learn or train or it's totally cool if that's your experienced jam). My mission here is to absolutely indulge your orgasmic experience intensely and repeatedly. (While indulging my own here and there. This will require primarily an open mind and just a bit of patience. Because my new dynamics are a situation that might be a bit sensitive to me, I ask for very mutual non- judgemental approach. As mentioned in the title... I'm not exactly looking for the regular ol "let's fuck" scene. It's helpful if you're creative. I'm particularly looking for something maybe a little less than serious, but a bit more than irresponsible casual. My physical requests are very open to race, age, weight or status. While I must stop short of saying I'm open to any...I can almost find something attractive about many body types, hair color, and lifestyle cultures. I have a minor fetish towards shorter hair tomboys. (Ftm can be considered). I'm not particularly interested in couples right at this time. I'm pretty attentive, single and enjoy a variety of quality social activities. I'm comfortable in my skin and confident in my lifestyle choices. I'll ask that you keep your expectations at the level of...I'm 62 years of age, sterile, full head of sandy grey hair. (If age gap is a thing for you). I don't refer to myself in third person or by any particular title. One more thing, I have no interest in OF, cyber, online only or long distance. Seeking local (in state) real people. Thank you