My wife and I have been married 6 years. I started talking dirty to her when we have sex about sharing her with other guys. She would play along and talk back. We would both say that it's hot to talk about but we would never be able to follow through. And just kept talking dirty every now and again during sex.

A couple weeks ago, we were both drunk and talking dirty during sex. I asked her to tell me about her ex while we had sex. She didn't like it and told me that was weird. I stopped and we kept going with regular sex.

Yesterday she finally brought it up and told me she didn't like that. I came clean and told her how it is a fantasy of mine to share her and loved it when she talked dirty to me. I also told her that I wanted her to talk in detail about her dates and the times that her and her ex would fuck. I told her that it's embarrassing for me to say it out loud but it was true.

She never said anything about it and just ignored me, and we still haven't talked about it. Just wanted to get some advice from other people that may have gone through something similar. Please keep comments respectful.

Forgot to mention that I am not trying to convince her to have a threesome with anyone at this point. It just all dirty talk at this point.

And we did have regular sex last night and still haven't talked about the elephant in the room.