I had coffee with a girl last friday and I thought it went pretty well. I messaged her on okcupid shortly afterward, thanking her for the conversation and offered a plan for another meeting for sometime next (this) week. She hasn't responded yet. Long pauses without responses isn't unprecedented in our communication, and normally I don't get so antsy over such a thing, but I do fear I may have scared her off. Either with my message or maybe I came off badly during our meeting (I really don't think so, I thought it went fine. But midway through, I did suddenly realize every so often I would be absentmindedly looking at her chest. Not because of her boobs (really!), but because she had this really interesting pendant on her necklace that had a really cool shape. Once I realized my behavior could be interpreted badly, I stopped though.)

The plan I suggested consisted of staying in and playing a board game and watching a bad movie (Both these things tie into our similar interests and I had even opened up communication challenging her to her favorite board game). And really, honest to god, board games and bad movie was my only intention. But I now fear that my intentions may have been misinterpreted. I want to message her with a new plan about catching dinner at a restaurant she liked, but now I also fear I'm coming across as desperate.

I also fear I'm over thinking things. Perhaps being single has affected me more than I thought?