Hello all. As the title suggests, I've sent dozens of messages to potential matches and gotten no replies, even to people I've 'matched with'. I'm sending thoughtful messages asking questions and commenting on parts of their profile, not just one liners.

My current profile is set up based on some advice I recieved: keep it positive, tell stories or give examples that illustrate your personality.

Clearly it seems to not be working. And of course my insecurities have me thinking I'm getting zero responses based on my height (5'7") which I know is enough to rule me out for a large percentage of women but 100%? Lol.

Anyway, looking for honest critiques. And if you're a woman, and despite my profile and pictures my height would lead you to not respond I'd be interested to know as well.

Thanks!

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