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[CJ][BJ][Basket's Journals] 2016 Dating Year In Review
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In March, I suffered a failed engagement (I knew him in high school and reconnected at a party).

Immediately started swiping on Tinder. A handful of conversations. 2 offline meets. Both I will NOT be taking with me into 2017.

  • One is flakey -- including whether or not sex/conversation will even be good. It's good sometimes. He shows up drunk othertimes. Not even worth it in an FWB.

  • The other shipped up at last check. I wish him luck. The shipped one was actually a reconnect from before my relationship. We met offline almost immediately because I remembered our rapport. Sometimes pen-palling is good.

Deleted Tinder recently due to shitty algorithms. Fetlife I used infrequently because I couldn't get my schedule to work with munches :( but it still offered 3 offline meets.

  • First was a dropped conversation from before my relationship.

  • The second was a classified that I answered. 5 dates over the summer a winter reconnect. Unsure if I want to continue into 2017.

  • The third is why I'm unsure about second. He was new to the site but the conversation was ideal. The sex was good. I am going to ask him about exclusivity after a few more good dates.

  • Plenty of dropped chit chats. My advice for Fetlife is definitely have face pics behind the friend wall, keep up close dick pics to a minimum, fill out the profile earnestly, go to munches, and don't bitch about "is anyone real on here!" Because obviously...I was.

  • Edit: there was a 4th. I forgot about him. I probably accidentally faded. Poor guy. But I'm not interested, so I don't think it's worth it to reach out and apologize.

Answered a few Craigslist personals...

  • ...but then had an email address SNAFU. I won't say "never again", but definitely not again for a while.

And lastly OKCUPID. Joined sometime in the summer.

  • Had 2 note-worthy lovers, one I'm remaining friends with.

  • 2 one-night-stands.

  • Scores of chit chats that didn't catch my eye

  • one long distance thang unfortunately shipped before our tryst so it blew off coolly as nevermets.

Oh, and I crushed on an Uber driver.

All-in-all, it's been a good year. I learned a lot.

AMAA. Post your stats & stories. Shame me. Whatevs.

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