I have a couple issues... My interests are limited and I find kink, alt relationship styles, ect. generally interesting so I seek out women who's profiles hint at these things. I have an equaled loath of creepy guys and hate to come off that way but topics of interest are limited and then there's the fact that there is little left to converse about if a person has spent any time on their profile.

Now I know there is a hate for one liners and I KNOW I can talk about kink, ect. with getting in the other persons pants not being on my mind but it still comes off as creepy. Cooking, taste in music, movies, interest in homesteading, and being an animal person are short topics. Where do I lead off, avoiding one liners and easing into kink, without seeming like I want to rush down her pants?

ETA: TL;DR How do I disassociate Kinks and alternative relationships from sex and seeming creepy?