is there a way to ask if she forgot about me without sounding like I'm desperate or pissed.

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met a girl online, asked her out, she said yes. then the day before the date she cancels and says she needs to check her work schedule before she can reschedule. that was Tuesday.

now I fully understand that likely she just changed her mind and i will probably never meet her, but I hate to ignore the slim possibility that she is just busy and some guy she's never met is probably not at the forefront of her thoughts.

I'm thinking of sending a final text on Monday, any idea on how I should phrase it?

on this subreddit because this might as well be another message online.

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