Good afternoon!

Just a quick update from your moderation team. We have seen a increase in responses, F4R posts and general traffic during the last 6 weeks. A few things that we strongly urge people to remember:

All images should be checked via Google Image Search ( https://images.google.com/). This means saving the photo and reverse search it - if you get hits, it is likely that you are being catfished or tricked in some fashion. Senders - be aware that this is recommended, and don't use photos that are on your social media, unless you'd like to be found directly.

Anecdotally many couples are 'testing the waters', or starting out into non-monogamy right now (see other subreddits such as swingersr4r getting overwhelmed with responses). If you are a couple who is looking for a woman (or man, no gender bias here) - do NOT send messages to MF posts that are MF4MF unless they specifically discuss playing separately. It's incredibly off-putting, and frankly disrespectful to message a couple multiple times and ask one of them to play without the other (unless of course, that's their thing) after they've made it clear they aren't into that. We have designations where you can put multiple things, such as MF4F / MF4MF / MF4M etc for this purpose.

Example: https://imgur.com/a/3lRnt5Y

People are not property, asking to 'send any girl your way' is dehumanizing and wrong. Have some respect for one another.

Most of all - be safe guys. We are still in a Shelter at Home order in Ohio, meaning while there are some businesses reopening - engaging with new people in person is still strongly discouraged.