I've been a Dom/Daddy over a decade, and have had many partners with varying degrees of experience in BDSM. Typically my dynamics have had some element of DDlg since I enjoy getting to express my more nurturing, guiding side where I give a lot of praise and affection mixed with the more rough, degrading, and aggressive forms of play. But, I tailor my approach and play to my sub since I want to make sure I'm hitting their mental and physical buttons well while giving them a fulfilling experience. We can discuss more about specific kinks we are both into as we chat. Be prepared: I ask a lot of questions about triggers, limits, and kinks to get a well rounded view of your kink landscape.

Note that I didn't have the capacity for a longer term, committed relationship right now, so long for a kink centered FWB or mentee looking to get a good foundation in kink while exploring their sexuality in a fun, safe way. Your autonomy, consent, comfort, and safety are always my top priorities. Even in more casual things like this, I put a lot of effort into being the best Daddy/Dom I can, so I don't take on new subs lightly and want to enjoy them as a person outside the bedroom just as much as inside.

A little about me: big teddy bear of a man (6ft and 270 lbs), close cropped grey hair, beard, glasses and blue eyes. Physical touch is my number one way of showing affection, so love to cuddle and always provide good aftercare. I'm a white collar professional, live by myself besides my dog, and have a lot of hobbies such as blacksmithing, leatherwork, woodwork, D&D, photography, and many more. Huge comedy nerd, liberal, introspective, thoughtful, goofy, and funny.

What I'm looking for: when it comes to submission, the thing that's most important to me if effort. I want to demonstrate that I'm a safe space and that you are in good hands, give good feedback, and show my appreciation so that you feel motivated to always do your best for me. I get along best with intelligent, neurodivergent (I am ADHD), kind, bubbly, curious, creative women who understand the importance of mature, honest communication. Uncertainty leads to misunderstandings, so I want us to both be on the same page at all times. I tend to prefer shorter and/or average sized partners because it makes me feel more protective when my partner is significantly smaller than me, but I have a pretty wide range of things I find attractive so don't let that worry you too much.

If you have gotten this far and are interested, feel free to send me a chat request or DM. As a blanket statement, I'll always answer to my comfort level and welcome your questions!