Hello! I'm a 36 year old guy who has been a Dom for a decade and active in the local community looking for a sub/babygirl to take under my wing. To be upfront, I don't have capacity for a longer term/committed dynamic right now, but would really enjoy a shorter term dynamic, with an experienced sub or someone new to kink, who is looking for a fun, safe way to explore their sexuality and kink. In person is important to me as well since I've never felt particularly satisfied with remote things, so my preference is IRL.

If it's helpful, I've had a number of partners new to kink who have asked me to give them a foundation in how a healthy dynamic works and help them set a precedent for how a Dom/Daddy should treat them. I put a lot of effort and time into being the best Dom/Daddy I can be, so I don't take on new partners/subs lightly. I want to make sure we click on multiple levels in and outside the bedroom, have good overlap in kinks, and feel safe/comfortable with each other. Even more casual things like play partners or shorter term dynamics, I'm very intimate and affectionate, and really want to do right by them. So, I try to establish strong lines of open communication early on, build trust, respect their autonomy by only taking control over what I'm explicitly given, determine/discuss boundaries and mental buttons thoroughly, and demonstrate that I'm thoughtful and transparent in my approach so they feel safe and taken care of.

I really enjoy the dichotomy of DDlg since the kind of emotional whiplash between wholesome and depraved is really stimulating, and provides a wider range of emotions within a scene. So, I tend to mix praise, affection, guidance, etc into the more aggressive and dominant forms of play. I enjoy impact, bondage, light breath play, sensory play, orgasm control, claiming/possession, degradation, roleplay, funishment, etc. I want my sub to feel motivated and safe enough to always give me their best, and for my authority to come from demonstrating that I'm worthy of their submission so that they genuinely, desperately want to please me and fully engage in their role.

I'm a big, sweet, somewhat shy man in public (6ft and 270 lbs), but very dominant in the bedroom; a teddy bear is still a bear 😉. I wear glasses, have a beard, and have short brown hair with blue eyes. I WFH in a white collar job and live alone, so I tend to prefer hosting. I do have a boxer though in case you are allergic or afraid of dogs (he's a big himbo though and very sweet). I'm very ADHD, so I have a lot of hobbies I cycle through like blacksmithing, woodwork, leatherwork, knife making, chainmail, model making and making book nooks, photography, D&D, etc and am a huge comedy nerd. I've even made a lot of my own impact toys such as a paddle, tawse, lollipop, and floggers.

I tend to get along best with intelligent, kind, bubbly, creative, curious people who are often neurodivergent. I consider myself gynesexual, so I'm mostly attracted to traditional "feminine" features and traits like softer features, softer voices, shorter statue than me, wide hips and breasts, but within that find many different body types attractive and don't particularly care about gender assigned at birth if very femme presenting.

Thank you for your time reading this wall'o'text! Through grade school to grad school, I never learned to be concise 😂. If the above resonates with you and you are in Ohio within a reasonable distance, please feel free to DM me or start a chat!