Hello there and good evening. I've been a bit of a homebody for quite a while now and I'd like to find someone to go do things with or stay in with.
I'm going to be open about myself. I'm probably autistic and that honestly explains a lot of struggles I've had. It's been especially hard because the area I'm affected most is socially. So flirting, body language, hinting, etc, that stuff doesn't work. I do not pick up on it at all. Mix in some social anxiety and I have had very little dating experience and I really haven't been around women since college (my friends gf and her friends, never one on one).
Because I haven't been around women a lot is why I'd like some women as friends. I don't know what I don't know so I figured it can't hurt me at all. I don't really know how to phrase this, but essentially I'd like something like a friend with benefits. I'm not ruling out something longer, but I'd really like to get laid one day. I have survived this long so I'm not going to be one of those guys that pressures anyone, being friends or friends who cuddle is more than enough for me. The thing I am ruling our is a hook up, maybe later in life but right now it just isn't for me.
Unrelated to that, my favorite sport is soccer, I love history, and that's really the big two (sign of autism: a keen interest in certain topics ✅). There's more that I like, geography, flags, railroads, geology, disc golf, and plenty more. Ive been described as kind, helpful, smart, a good listener, and in general a solid human being.
I hope to hear from you. Maybe we'll meet up one day.
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