I will try to briefly explain this interest as best as I can; well it’s more than an interest. I was blessed to grow up in a very good and stable family and have recognized and appreciated the benefit of that since I was old enough and mature enough to. I want to be clear that IM NOT into incest generally though I don’t really feel I can judge it for obvious reasons. However, I always thought it would be nice to grow up with a sibling of the sex you’re attracted to and developing a romantic relationship with them with the close, trusting, familial bond as the foundation. That idea has always been very intimate and comforting to me and I very much want that kind of love/ mentality in a relationship. Now obviously that’s not possible since I’m already a grown man in his 30s and don’t have a sister. However, in my mind the next best thing is to find a woman raised in similar circumstances with the same goal for a relationship dynamic. In other words, I want us to work toward a relationship where we have the level of comfort, familiarity, and love that only siblings could. 

Basics about me: Recently 32, graduate level education, and financially stable. 6ft about 260lbs (and losing), and politically conservative. Have a passion for cinema, cooking, and history and while values matching to me is the most important I would prefer you that you enjoy these things as well. 

So if you are 18-25, in the U.S., have no kids but want them one day, and were also raised in a conservative and stable family environment and wanted this as well please reach out with asl and what the dynamic means to you. Also include your favorite movie and contemporary actor. Don’t mean to be a jerk but if you don’t include this basic info your message will be ignored. I get way too many “hey”s Also, be willing to voice chat (which can be done anonymously on discord, skype, whatsapp etc) within 3 days and willing to meet up in person within two weeks if you are within 3 hours driving distance. If you are unwilling to do these things on this time table I will assume you lack the seriousness maturity to be the type of person I’m looking for and will not allow either one of us to waste each others time. 

Other deal breakers include being outside of my age range. This isn’t because I have a kink for younger women (though I do) its more so because I don’t plan on having kids until I’m 40 or at least no younger than 38. Obviously for this to work I would need to date a younger woman. Also, being politically liberal; this goes without saying. You don’t have to have a conservative position on every issue but being anti abortion, pro gun, and pro Trump are non-negotiables for me. Finally, if you have a brother I don’t think it will work for obvious reasons. 

If this post is up I’m still looking. I’m trying to limit how much time I spend on reddit because I spend way too much damn time on here lol. I plan on getting on next on Friday. If you’d like to talk then without waiting too long between responses be looking for my messages then.