I'm at a point in my life where I would like to start the process of finding a life partner/ woman who would eventually like to have children. What I am looking for is perhaps a little unique or if not unique specific. Therefore please read this in its entirety and please don't respond unless its something you're looking for/ is compatible with your life goals as well. I want to say starting off Im not from Ohio but am close so could meet up in person pretty easily.
Basics about me: Im 31 years old, graduate level education, not wealthy at this point but financially stable, and no mental illness. Politically I am conservative but not particularly religious and looking for the same. (And no me being a conservative doesn't I'm into the whole tradwife thing. I'd actually prefer you do have a job at least after the kids go off to school) Physically I'm 6ft, about 250 (losing weight down from 280 at my heaviest), white, brown hair, blue eyes. People have said I look like a fat Matt Damon just to give you an idea haha. No physical health issues except cyclical eczema on my face (meaning it comes and goes) which at worst just looks like I have teenage acne. Some days its clear some days it looks like I have herpes haha but I will send you a picture of it at its worst when we get to that point to make sure its not a deal breaker in terms of physical attraction. It is not lethal or contagious.
What I'm looking for: A woman (obviously) between 18-25 who is looking not so much for "love" (whatever that means) as companionship who intends to have children in the medium to distant future (5-10 years); ideally 3-5 children. I can promise commitment and support for our family to the extent necessary but I will not be combining or giving you access to my assets. We can discuss what this means in further detail. Physical attraction and good genes are important to me and if you express genuine interest in this post I would prefer we exchange pics relatively quickly and be kind but honest as to whether or not its there. Race doesn't matter to me. You don't have to be a supermodel but there is a certain level of attraction I need in order to to be fulfilled in a relationship (as Im sure you do too) so I think being polite but candid about that early on is best to save us time. As far as genes: since this post is in large part about finding a partner to have children with genetic history is not unimportant so I will as politely but as candidly as possible say that if you have any genetic abnormalities/ diseases, (even if they're not visible) I would not be interested. In that spirit I would also ask that the average lifespan of your grandparents not be less than 80. With that being said character and temperament are far more important to me than looks. I will choose a 6-7 who is kind and respectful over a rude 10 any day. So please be a kind and respectful person and please understand the importance of that. As far as sex goes I have a pretty healthy sex drive and I expect you to have one too. We don't have to be monogamous but we have to be each other's priority. We can discuss this along with kinks/ interests once we've establish we're compatible.
Finally, I want to be honest that Im at a bit of a crossroads in my life. I'm currently not working in the field in which my degree is in however the job I have, while not glamorous, is not as stressful, pays pretty well, and makes it easier for me to travel. The only reason I mentioned my education level is to denote an above average intelligence; not for superficial purposes but for reproductive purposes. Right now my plan is to join the military at some point in the next few years as an officer as well as trying to get a small confectionary business started in the meantime. I mention these plans because I know a man's ambition and career is important to many women and I want to be honest about myself in this regard in the ways I am ambitious and am not. If you're the type of woman who needs a guy to have a job where he wears a tie everyday, or works in an office, or would be embarrassed that he manages a McDonalds as his career I'm not the guy for you. ( I don't manage a McDonalds thats just an example) If you're that type of woman please understand I'm not trying to insult you at all; I would never judge what someone needs in a relationship to be satisfied/ fulfilled however my last serious relationship ended in part because she felt I wasn't disciplined/ ambitious enough. Again, I will always do what is necessary to support the family but if I can work a less glamorous less stressful job that pays the same as the more glamorous more stressful job I will always choose the former.
I hope my candor in this post doesnt make me come off as too rigid I actually do have cultural interests and a sense of humor but I believe in getting the serious stuff out of the way first. I tried to be as thorough in this post as possible but of course I will be happy to answer any questions/ concerns you have. If interested please respond with your age, level of education, and favorite musical band/ artist so I know you've read the whole thing.