I’m a nerdy, occasionally socially awkward, artistic neurodivergent cutie (cuter in person but I’m trying to learn what my angles are 😅) just trying to meet some cool folks in the Dayton/Cincy/Columbus area and hopefully go on some fun dates. I really could care less about sex initially - I’m Demi as fuck so I really can’t get into it unless there’s a connection, and I LOVE to get to know people and learn about their passions, interests, drives, dreams, etc. On average, it seems like people I’ve met on Tinder and the like get maybe 2/3 days of good back-n-forth then Idk get bored or distracted or w/e and frankly I’m tired of that. I want to connect, revel in commonalities, and build something lasting with someone/s. I s’pose I’d self-identify as Bisexual, with a strong preference for afab or trans-masc people. My preferred relationship style is probably some form of kitchen-table Polyamory but I’ve had a few recent and pretty terrible experiences with poly so I’m not like POLY OR DIE lol For the right emotionally healthy individual I could definitely be monogamous - I guess you’d call that bi-romantic. Mono or poly - what matters to me is how non-toxic you are in the context of a relationship. Can you treat me well? Respect my boundaries? Be emotionally mature and a good communicator? If the answers to those questions are yes, Idgaf how many partners you have/want. I’m kinky - Dominant (Primal) Sadist, & Daddy-Dom in that order, with a fun subby switchy side I can get into if I’m VERY comfortable with my partner/s. Looking forward to attending Trauma in Columbus this fall…😈 I’m excitable, engaging, and I love to make people laugh and smile - I have a deep and abiding love for any sort of storytelling, especially visual media, so movies, shows, games, etc. Godzilla/kaiju/anime are some of my favorites, but most of all I’d love to hear about what you like. I’m a musician, currently trying to work through some recent trauma by playing in a live music setting again after many years of not seriously playing at all. I might be pretty rusty, but nothing makes me happier than performing - so reconnecting to that part of myself is a major priority for me. If you can jam with me, or even just be supportive - you’ll win big points. 😊 I have ADHD REAL good - goldfish-brain except when it comes to Jim Carrey and Monty Python quotes, so please don’t take it personally if I forget stuff. It’s not because I don’t care, I promise. I was also recently diagnosed with BPD which has contextualized a lot of my past struggles, but I am getting treatment for it and it has been getting a lot more manageable. I’m committed to always improving myself, and I’ll always be open and honest about my mental health. I encourage you to do the same with me. ☺️ I also work out a ton,kayak, hike, and ride my bike a ton, and I have a very active job so I’m in pretty good shape. A partner who is equally as physical as I am isn’t a necessity, but I do ask that you are able/willing to participate in at least some of those types of activities as they are more for the maintenance of my mental health than my vanity - and I view them as vital elements of pair-bonding (not to be too clinical about it 😅) I’m also getting into doing original cyberpunk-themed cosplays - feel free to creep on some of my other posts in other groups if you’re interested in seeing what that looks like. As you might be able to tell I like to talk a LOT and will ramble if allowed, so thank you for getting all the way to the bottom of this wall of text with me. 😜 Hope to hear from you soon!