For a long time, I debated whether or not to make another post on many times before. My search has led me to the regrettable conclusion that perhaps online dating isn't the greatest location to find what I'm after. Since my longest friendship is with someone I met online a decade ago, I've never been one to believe that online connections can't be just as rewarding as they are in real life. However, the disadvantages of online dating are beginning to outweigh their advantages. Still, there are just too many individuals in the world for me to confine my interactions to my immediate vicinity. And if nothing else, writing this piece will force me to reflect on my own desires.

But first, let me tell you a little bit about who I am. A man of Arab descent, I was born and raised in VA, living in Ohio. I'm a glasses-wearing cap nerd that stand tall and my build is lean and athletic.

I'm constantly thinking about and talking about movies. I enjoy a good conversation, creating new worlds in my head, and gaining knowledge from the media I watch. I value keeping up of current political developments because of their significance to me personally. And I'm a gamer that loves a wide range of genres. Although, I only play on PC. If you'd want further information, I'd be more than happy to provide it! Furthermore, I abstain from all licit and illicit substances or drugs. Sober for a long time now.

Exactly what am I trying to find? So, to sum up: love. True, heartfelt, and everlasting affection. I'm not looking for a casual conversation. I promise I won't come asking for any "favors" or naked time. I'm looking for someone with ethics and personal values that we can connect openly about without putting either part through so much emotional turmoil and go from there lol (marriage, kids, religion, etc)

Getting what I want won't be easy, and if it were, I wouldn't get as much out of it as I could. Let's not jump into a flurry of flirtation before we've had a chance to get to know one another and feel comfortable with one another. Clearly stating our objectives is OK, but I'm not looking for a sexually charged relationship. Those things are lovely, of course, but they're even better when you're not wondering if your feelings will fade away soon.

I'm searching for a lifelong companion. I'd like for us to inspire and motivate one another to grow into our greatest selves. I want to work toward goals with you and enjoy the fruits of our labors together.

I'm looking for someone I can have deep, meaningful conversations with while also making dumb, low-IQ jokes with.

Please tell me everything about yourself. I'm curious in the kinds of music and television you enjoy. How can I make you feel at ease and how can I make you laugh? Which types of narratives have the greatest effect on you? In a person, what do you admire the most? Where would you like to go on vacation? In five years, describe the ideal version of your life.

I'm looking to settle down with a good person. Please join me for a meal.

I'm looking for intimacy and love.

If that's what you're after, hit me up.