Well I'm a widower after 23 years. I've come to discover being alone sucks. My dating and pickup skills are rusty ggas i was just out of high school when i last used them. But i still got my charm;). I'm about 5'10" 175lbs. Brown hair and blue/gray eyes. I guess I'm not looking for anything or anyone in particular anywhere from a penpal to a friend to a FWB to something long-term. Obviously the further down that list the longer it'll take to get there. but that's my ultimate goal was to find somebody to share my life with. But I can be down for a little bit of fun in the meantime. I like doing about anything outdoors. Appearances can deceive with me I appear to be a redneck but I am quite the nerd. I'm a nut for science, History, philosophy. My biggest pastime is probably reading I read a lot. I'd like to cook a little bit I don't have a huge catalog of recipes that I'm good at but I got a few and the damn good if you ask me. I'm a cat person that one is pretty much a non-negotiable. Pretty much into anything tech typical guy stuff. I like actually getting up and getting out and doing something not necessarily around a crowd of people but something instead of sitting on my butt watching Kardashians or some crap like that. I don't drink a light smoker. Once in a blue moon 420 smoker. At first glance you would probably think I'm pretty mild-mannered in conservative vanilla blah blah I do got a bit of a wild side though. I guess I'm looking for a woman age isn't horribly important as long as ya got a certain level of maturity and on the other end yet still young enough to occasionally take initiative. Intellectual types are always a plus. I don't know maybe one of ya's could surprise me. You never know til ya HMU. Send a pic ill send one back. One very big final thought I bring no drama to the table and nor am I looking for any.