First off, I am married and looking for the same.  I am gainfully employed and can work long hours.  I’m sure you’re interested in the title, and yes, I’ve been told I resemble the Cap by more than one person (Steve Rogers of course).  It may not be a dead-ringer, but I keep an active lifestyle and am in decent shape.  I like to think I’m pretty easy on the eyes.   The bedroom has been a bit lackluster as of late.  My wife does not have the drive she used to before our child.  I feel I still have a lot to explore and would love to share that sense of adventure with an interested partner.   I love to cater to fantasies.  Anything that makes my partner happy, I am down to try it.  With a few exceptions: No pain/humiliation/scat/pegging/bloodplay/breathplay (and I’m sure there are probably more).  Outside of the wildly unconventional, I am a huge proponent of exploring kinks, fantasies, foreplay and other desires.  I have many of my own and would love to share them with you if we strike up a good conversation.   Though my job can be demanding, I am looking to meet up with an eligible AP once or twice a month. While I am excited about exploring the kinkier roots of a connection, I am also excited for that initial spark. I miss being in a new relationship when you get excited about each text message. However, I am not on here to change your/my situation and nor should you be if you’re interested in this post. Our first meetup should include drinks, a few laughs and a chance to see if we would be a good fit.  The second time we meet might be in a more intimate setting.   I’d like to exchange SFW pics rather early on in the conversation.  We can work our way to the spicier stuff if it feels natural.   Me: -6’1/190lb -Decent looks -Married (not looking to change) -Busy schedule but available for texting and occasional meetups -Discreet (AP OPSEC) -Central Ohio   You: -Married (not looking to change) -Local to Central Ohio or willing to meet halfway -Discreet (AP OPSEC) -Able to text semi-regularly (Not a stage 5 clinger but not a ghost) -Able to meet once or twice a month -Similar db story -Between the ages of 21 and 45 (willing to adjust if the chemistry is right)

Also, not interested in talking about politics. I don’t have a problem which way you swing, I just don’t want that to be a pivotal factor for our endeavors.