I'm always asked what are you looking for and the simple sum of things is

Honesty, Chemistry (of some kind), Bi sexual male, Lonterm. ..And we will know when we find it.

Everything else can be discussed, encouraged, explored and built upon gradually for trust and growth. Now for more details….

My husband and I do host a get together the first Saturday of the month(unless it's a holiday) for couples, singles, members of the LGBTQIA community, poly, straight, well.....anyone really!

Now with that...I am submissive only to my husband and dominate to any others. I'm learning my sadistic side and exploring that, where and with who I can. However, I do enjoy the occasional double dom on me.....occasional.

We are looking forward to making more friends and exploring whatever life may throw our way. No matter, we are needing it to be a long term thing, call it a friendship, relationship or whatever -ship you may want to use. Trust, connection and growth doesn't happen over night or after one meeting.

I am a 40s something SSBBW who has been married to the same man for over 20 years. Of those 10 we have explored and lived the lifestyle off and on. We also have a lover, of 1 year, who won't be included as a 4th. Feel free to ask me anything I am like an open book.

We are very much into finding someone who has chemistry with us, who has a personality and can be friends out of the bedroom.

With that said.....I like most music, artsy crafty things, coloring, observing older architecture, some gardening, Netflix, frugal shopping, and much more.

He is into puzzles, history, target shooting, limited interest in music but increasing interest slowly, glamping, and much more that I'm just not thinking of at the moment. Again ask me anything, it is hard to offend me.

I also sell custom made paddles if anyone is interested contact me and we can set something up. WE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR NEW FRIENDS, AND PEOPLE TO HANG OUT WITH AND SEE WHERE THINGS GO.