We all do have our preferences base on our taste and our likings. Most likely ito yung sinasabi nila na “equivalent sa whatever value that I am/have” or some will say “my right to choose who to love and to be with”. Most of the preferences are based sa physical appearance, like 70% to 80% (aminin niyo yan!) May iba pa nga requirement dapat may car. Pr graduate ng any “big 4” univ. then the rest are personality, attitude, IQ or kung ano ang iba pang less na priority.

Hindi ako bitter. In fact may preferences ako. Hindi nga lang katulad sa karamihan na looks lang or what. Pero I make it to the point na realistic yung hinahanap ko. Siguro sa age ko narin na I’m looking for someone who can be with me na hanggang sa pag tanda ko. Or a lifetime partner na. But then again, walang guarantee na yung preferences ko is will give me what I’m looking for. Sometimes if we ask, laging may kulang. We can’t have it all lang talaga. Siguro dun na papasok yung acceptance mo sa part na kung ano ang wala.

My friend will always say na “depende sa partner mo yan kung pano niya aalagaan relationship niyo. May times na ibibigay ni universe yung hinahanap mo pero that person naman is not the relationship type of guy.” Kase given na ikaw, naghahanap ka na eh and siyempre andiyan na yung gift sayo na gustong gusto mo. Remember, pag gusto talaga natin ang isang bagay, sobrang inaalagaan and iniingatan natin yan para tumagal satin. Pero if time comes na that thing does not serve its purpose anymore, dinidispose na natin then buy a new one. Pero I know some people na kahit out of date na yung bagay, ginagamit parin nila kase for them, nagagamit pa naman and kuntento na sila dun. Hanggang sa siguro hindi na talaga pwedeng gamitin si gamit then that’s the time na pwede na nila idispose yung gamit or may iba na nakatago lang.

Pero yes. Depende parin sa tao yan kung mag wowork ba yung relationship nila or not. Pero hindi mo magaguarantee na yung preferences itself will not give you a lifetime partner. Mas okay na kilalanin mo muna yung tao.