Nalakapagod narin minsan yung palagi kang nag aadjust or umiintindi sa mga situations na hindi ka na comfortable. Once I said no to them, ako pa yung lumabas na masama sa kanila kase I don’t understand them daw. Pero pag ako naman yung lumalapit sa kanila, kahit mag no sila, I have to understand them. Pero pag iba na ang lumapit sa kanila, okay lang kase they understand. Ang unfair lang talaga ng mga relatives minsan.

A friend told me na it’s okay to be selfish minsan. Kung hindi nila maintindihan yung side mo, problem na nila yun. You can just help them with what you only can. But they are not your responsibility naman. Ganon din sila sayo. So it’s best na show the same treatment to them.

Sa totoo lang mahina loob ko if they say something na sakin and I really feel bad about it. Sana malakas lang ang loob ko para may guts ako na to say no to them if I’m not comfortable with it na.