Hindi ko magets yung trip ng ibang tao like alam na nga nila na nasa relationship sila pero kating kati parin sila na pumatol or magpakamot pa sa iba. Naaawa ako dun sa partner na chineat ng jowa nila.

Heto kase yun. Itong si friend kase may partner na mahilig mag flirt sa kung sinong bet niga or he would flirt to someone for no reason at all. This guy is at his prime narin so dapat (for me lang) at his age, diba dapat wala na yung nature na nagloloko pa siya or doing stuff like “still checking if pasok pa ako sa market na to” thing lase parang tanga lang talaga. Hindi ko lang talaga magets yung ganon eh. So my friend invited us sa 4th anniversary nila sa bahay na kakabili nila since regalo nila for themselves since 4 years narin naman sila. So I went there and bought a wine for them. Since maliit lang naman ang circle namin like 6 lang talaga kaming close. So nagtataka kami kase wala yung partner ng friend namin. Late lang daw kase galing lang sa bahay ng parents and all. So okay. Then the partner arrived like 2hrs late na and ate pag dating. Nakipag kwentuhan saglit samin and nag paalam na he will be sleeping early raw kase he needs to work pa raw tomorrow (like on a Sunday? Serioso?) I was like shocked kase he should be enjoying their new place and to celebrate their 4th yr anniv. But no! He chose to go to bed early. Insaw my friends reaction and I know masakit yun for him so I approached him and asked if he’s okay. Usual answer like “yes. I’m okay. Don’t worry.” But I know naman na hindi naman talaga okay si friend after all. Natapos narin yung party and all so I offered na to help my friend linisin yung mga kalat and all.

So nakipag kwentuhan lang ako sa kanya then he started to cry out of no where na medyo naloka ako. So I approached hom and asked what’s wrong. Then he started to tell his story na. Cold na pala si partner niya sa kanya for a year na and they’ve been fighting over the house na wag nang bilhin kase hindi raw practical according sa partner ng friend ko. The partner decided na bawiin yung decision na to buy a house and mag live on sila. At that time nakapag downpayment na yung friend ko sa house to surprise him pero siya pa yung nasurpriss sa ginawa ng partner niya. so he decided na to buy nalang the house for him and keep it nalang since nakuha naman na share niya sa inheritance from his family. Pero his partner thinks na hindi practical and all and that my friend should sell the house and to live sa mga siblings niya instead para hindi magastos and all. my friend tried to convince his partner pero mukhang mas nagalit pa lalo. So my friend was devastated by his partners actions. dati naman raw excited siya na to buy a house on our own then bigla nalang nag decide na wag nalang daw. hes cheating on me over this guy na nakilala niya sa party ng friend nila. i asked if he tried to talk to him about it but sinaktan lang daw siya ng partner niya.then dun nag start ang pagiging cold ng partner niya sa kanya. he was planning na to break up with him daw pero nag hahanap pa siya ng tyempo. tyempo for what? baka marealize ba niya na mali siya?

I did not bother to talk about it pa and just gave an advice na to end it up with him nalang and pumayag na idate yung Dr na may gusto sa kanya na until now bet na bet parin si friend.

nakakainis lang yung ganon diba? it doesn't make you a better person or doesn't make you look cool just by cheating. kung may problem ka sa partner mo, much better na kausapin mo. or kung di mo na talaga love, tell him and breakup with him nalang. wala naman mawawala if we do the rigjt thing naman diba? that will help help you become a better person. let's not lower our standards just to cheat. but be the bigger person to face the challenges that you're having with your partner.