I don't have the energy pa to confron him about the situation kase alam niya na alam kong meron siyang iba. Before na icoconfront ko siya, he would change the topic or mag hahanap ng reason para ako ang lalabas na may fault and not him. Nakakasawa narin na palaging ganon ang eksena pag kinoconfront ko siya. So from there, nag start na akong maging cold na sa kanya lalo sa relationship namin. I felt like moving forward without him na. I don't have the extra energy pa na to initiate the breakup kase feeling ko naman na wala naman narin so why bother. As of now, he's hanging out with his friends sa isang resort sa Quezon. Hindi narin siya ganong nagpaparamdam and all so what's the point of telling him pa?

I just don't feel like fixing it anymore kase for sure this scenario will happen again and for sure mas magaling na siyang mag tago kung ano pa ang pwede niyang gawin and all. So in my case, nag move on nalang ako instead of confronting or fixing it with him. Don't get me wrong ha. Hindi naman ako nag hahanap for a new one or chatting with someone hindi naman ako katulad niya na makati or malandi or whatever you call it pa. For me, okay na ako na single ako kase I will have more time for my friends, my mom and for myself. Okay na yun. And if meron pang dumating after, at least I know that I'm ready na and all.

Moving on while nasa relationship ka felt like liberating and all. I don't feel any obligations or what na to him. For me lang, kung may nagustuhan kang iba at feeling mo mas masaya ka sa kanya kaysa sa current partner mo, makipag break ka nalang sa current one mo then continue mo na dun sa isa. Common sense nalang eh. Hindi ka naman mag hahanap ng iba kung mahal mo pa partner mo diba? Or hindi ka magpapakamot sa iba kung kelan ka kinakati kase alam mong may partner ka at dun ka nalang magpapakamot and all. Being faithful or loyal to a partner is not just an obligation. It is a commitment to your partner to stay loyal and faithful. Kahit may problem kayo, try to fix it. Make the most of it. Honestly, hindi ka lang nag cheat sa partner mo. Pati rin sa isa. That doesn't make you a better person. The more na nagmumukha kang kadiri sa ginagawa mo. It only proves na hindi ka credible kase may tendency kang manloko/manipulate ng tao. For sure kung nagawa mo sa iba, magagawa mo rin yan sa parents mo. We're old enough naman to know the differences between right and wrong. Why make a wrong decision if you can make the right thing naman, diba? Instead of making it worse, make it easier for the both of you para walang masasaktan and madaling makapag move on na kung wala narin talaga. Hindi naman natin kelangan maging perfect eh. We just have to choose the right thing so we can make things better. Kase kung nagawa mo sa current partner mo na mag cheat, for sure magagawa mo rin yan sa isa.