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This will get downvoted as hell pero madalas napapansin ko dito, it's girls complaining about the quality of guys chatting with them. Lol that's why my messages are turned off here. Locals or foreigners, madaming tanga at puro libog ang alam once they knew you're a woman on the internet.
So yeah, that's why I wonder why, bakit ka papatol sa mga sadbois online na puro porn ang alam sa buhay? You're setting yourself up to failure already. Sa tingin mo you can magically fix him once magsend ka ng messages at later on, a NSFW photo of yourself? That once you're in the talking phase and for ilang days and weeks lang in love na kayo sa isa't isa then pag nakaisa sayo, biglang ghosting. Heck, kahit di pa nga makaisa eh, you're just in a waiting list of girls he can fuck. Jusme.
GIRL, STEP YOUR PUSSY UP! YOU'RE MORE THAN THAT. Tangina, wag mo naman hayaan sarili mo maging parausan ng libog. Eugh. Yung ibang girls mas matatanda pa sakin and yet parang walang common sense na the guys they're chatting with are only sweet because they want something from them. Hay nako. If you get validation and attention that way then meh, sure, whatever. You do you. Baka nasa hoe phase ka pa rin. This post if your wake up call.
Anyway, nakakainis lang kasi. I'm not victim blaming but don't actively make yourselves a victim. Don't centralized having a relationship or being romantic to someone. Yan kasi problema eh. These exploitative men knows your weaknesses, wala kang self confidence at naghahanap ka ng validation online. Of course, mix with mental health issues, yan ang mga favourite nilang ilatch on.
Yung iba magtatanong pa "Di nya ako type pero mahal daw nya ako" ugh girl, what are you giving him? You're a narcissistic supply. My goodness. The love bombing phase will end and the discarding and devaluation phase will come. Ghosted ka after ilang days or weeks of chatting? Tough up, buttercup, you're not the problem. It's them who can't commit so useless yang pag iyak iyak mo just because nag trauma bond kayo sa problems nyo sa buhay.
Mahaba na to. Nakakainis. Yeah, men are fucking annoying as hell for using women but don't make yourselves a rehabilitation center. If you have problems, like, don't make your partner your therapist. Yeah, may mga problema tayo sa buhay but at the end of the day, hindi mo deserve maging sponge at punching bag nya for his emotional issues. Tangina.
Sa tingin mo deserve mong basura na trato? Go fine, but just remember you'll attract those who treat you like shit. If you kept on wondering why you couldn't attract guys na may maayos na outlook sa buhay, maybe you're looking in the wrong crowd. Wag ka mainggit sa mga couples na nagkakilala sa Reddit para may maipost sa Tiktok. Jusko, what a shallow way to look at having a relationship. Being in a relationship with someone is deeper than that.
Ewan ko ba. Ang bata bata ko pa pero feel ko ang tanda ko na mag isip. Not saying that maturity comes with age since may mga 40 years old na lalaki parin na isip bata but come on, girl, you deserve a better treatment than what you're doing to yourself right now. Hopefully one day, you can wake up from the nightmare you put yourself in. Yeah, harsh truth talaga. Downvote mo, I don't care. I said my piece. Oh wait, naiinis ako because I care, I care so much na naiinis ako na dahil ginago yung isang babae, feeling nila, lahat ng babae magagago nila. Ugh. Whatever. Kakainin na lang ako ng crispy chicken sandwich sa Jollibee.
aray. pero thanks OP. :)) saving this post and looking out for myself more from now on
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