Me [21m] was ghosted by my partner [22M] Just recently pa nga eh.

He went out with two of his group mates for thesis work (also both girls are his friends) and was busy the whole day. It wasnt really a problem because all through out of our relationship he always had other priorities and I always understood if things didnt go our way.

That day, I asked him if our date would push through that upcoming week pero sabi niya hindi raw (he showed proof naman kung bakit) pero nag tampo parin ako kasi weve been planning that for awhile. Pero nung bandang gabi na, he told me na pupunta siya sa bahay ng kaibigan niyang babae at 11pm. I chatted him na I’m not comfortable na pupunta siya sa bahay ng babae at 11pm (hes bi btw). Kasi naman, nasa Manila bahay nung girl and uwi niya Caloocan like sana umuwi na lang siya diba.

Anyway, sabi ko na sige go punta ka lang and mag ingat siya pauwi because I know hes tired from all the things he had to do all day plus yung travel niya pa pauwi. I said our daily good night messages kahit nag tatampo ako and called it a day.

The weekend came hindi ako nag cchat ng saturday kasi gusto ko siya naman mauna since nag tatampo ako, so I didnt chat the whole day but I did message him na nunrg evening ng good night.

Sunday came and hindi parin niya sineseen messages ko and napansin ko na simula saturday, hindi na naka fill in yung checkmark sa messenger so obviously naka mute na ‘ko sakanya. I still continued updating him thought kasi tanga ako.

Pero Monday came, I called him three times that morning. He rejected every single one.

Kahit ngayon I feel like I’m floating. I feel earthquake in my bones and fire in my lungs and I just cant breathe. This isnt our first breakup pero imagine, suddenly ghosting your partner who you wanted to build a future with.