Ganun na ba talaga kahirap makahanap ng genuine connection and serious relationship in the dating scene nowadays? Tried dating apps and serious and casual dating, but to no avail. From experience, these are some of the categories that guys fall into: a) into hookups/fwb/fubu only, b) casual dates only kasi not ready/doesn’t like commitment, c) unsure of what they want so they either ghost you or eventually let the convo die, d) ghosters, e) dry texters and ikaw talaga magbubuhat ng convo, f) confusing/misleading yung actions so di mo alam if ano ba talaga, g) okay kayo at first, akala mo yun na yun tapos biglang magbabago and eventually, mawawala.

Is it really that hard na talaga? I’ve always been intentional when I date and I always try to be clear and communicate about that. The people around me tell me na i’m dateable naman, there are some traits na I should work on but overall, i’m someone na pang-seryosohan, as they say. But idk why i’m always taken for granted and i’m always the one na nasasaktan in the end? Nakakapagod na din, although at the back of my head, lagi kong naiisip na, what if mapagod akong mag-effort, may dadating pa kaya? Idk what to do :(

Lagi ko naiisip, paano ba and saan ba makakakita ng guys who are ready for genuine and serious relationships :(