AS IF, syempre joke lang. I knew all along the answer the moment he said "hi" and "how r u" after many months. For context, nagkakilala kami sa dating app and we're both "up for serious relationship", ang ending? he ghosted me twice, first as talking stage, second after we met. The second time around, I was hoping na may magbabago pag nakita nya ako sa personal, im confident with my looks (but not too confident ayan disclaimer). Emotional ghosting yung ginawa nya wherein sweet sa umpisa biglang di na magchachat at sasabihin "may ginawa lang" after x hours!! In fairness naman dito, yung second usap namen may closure na (wag ka hahaha).

Anyways, he messaged me again using his dummy account. He was sorry and acknowledged what he did which I appreciated. Many convos later, he then asked me to meet and do intimate things, syempre I already healed, di na tayo tanga OPO!! to think iniyakan ko pa to ah kasi akala ko, TOTGA ko sya, hinayang na hinayang pako. Ilang letters to God din sinulat ko para maka-move on! twice ako nag heal sayo, di pa ba enough yun? God, you will be PROUD! I cried to you every night because of that. To think, there was even a family emergency when he ghosted me.

Until to the last time, i still respected him, and politely declined his invite to do intimate things with him. I sent a short message saying "I healed, you got what you wanted, we're both in a better state now. Let's just leave it as it is."