Idk if this is just me pero parang nakakapagod na mag-effort in general.

Yung ikaw yung magrereach out sa friends mo para makapagkita kayo kasi miss mo na sila, if may kausap ka naman, oo masaya kayo sa chat, interested daw sila to meet pero ikaw pa din mag-eeffort na ibring up na “kelan ba tayo magmemeet”. Yung sabi mo you’ll stop making an effort in dating pero you’re still trying to look for people who you can go on dates with or finding your person.

Parang nakakapagod lang mag-effort and magreach out kasi parang it makes you feel na pinipilit mo lang yung sarili mo and it would really be nice if other people would do it for you and di nalang laging ikaw. Nakakapagod din maging kind and genuine kasi most of the time, you just end up being taken for granted.