i found out about it around 3 weeks ago when we were at a family event where my dad was asking for help with something in his phone. He took a video kasi of something but can't seem to find the said video so I was gonna give him a quick rundown on how to find it. I went back to his gallery, checked the album thumbnails to see if it was there but it wasn't but a certain album thumbnail caught my eye - it was one of my explicit photos from before. I didn't wanna believe it at first but judging from my dad's reaction, on how he snatched his phone so quickly, it was the photos nga.

but how did my dad get it in the first place?

I was a chronic online user back in 2020, as anyone was due to the pandemic. I engaged in sexual activities online, which i regret for multiple reasons and minor din pa kasi ako back then. my dad caught me doing the act in early 2022, in which he confiscated my phone and asked for my passwords. he snooped around it and saw those pictures, took a pic with his own phone for his own record and exposed my photos & situation to some family members.

i was humiliated back a lot but back then i just thought that maybe it was their way of yk seeking help from others kasi they didn't know what to do but at the same time, i wished we could've kept it to just the three of us and talked it out.

there has been times na rin where my mom asked my dad if he still has those photos in which my dad said na he didn't daw and my mom just believed it. i asked her if she checked his phone but she says na she trusts him naman and "bahala na daw ang diyos."

tapos, around a month ago, the topic resurfaced again between my mom and dad since my mom noticed something off in her own messenger. she noticed a picture - an explicit photo of mine that she has, was mysteriously sent to my dad's account. she was so sure that she didn't send it herself so she confronted my dad about it and asked if he sent it to himself and he said that he didn't send it and why would he send it to himself daw. nagaway sila about it then mom made kwento to me about the happenings nga.

rn, with everything that i know na, idk what to do. should i confront him about what i know, tell my mom, gather more evidence muna or what. my cousins know about these too but i doubt they'll help me with it. im so lost and i haven't sleeping properly ever since that so yea.

quick vent ig :]

p.s. sorry for the grammatical errors po