me (m21) and my girl (f19) has been dating for 4 years na, almost 5. we're both compatible with each other naman. the only problem is when we're having an argument. I feel like nag gagantihan nalang kami. don't get me wrong, As much as possible i don't want to tell her things na makakasakit sakanya. but every time na nanunumbat sya or something, sometimes nagagawa ko din. back when we were 16-15 aaminin ko i didnt treat her right cause I don't know how to properly handle a relationship pa at the time. but the moment she said she doesnt want that kind of treatment I stop doing things that can hurt her. after that I try to improve my self and my mindset since gusto ko mapabuti and I want to grow with her. I even become vulnerable to her cause back then never ako nagsasabi ng feelings ko. A lot of things about be has been changed because of her and I like it. for me ah I become a better version compared to my past self. the only problem is how she change after I changed. she become more irritable, she can't control her anger. hindi nya mapigilan manumbat or pagsalitaan ako ng masama. because of my vulnerability to her now even a little change to her tone umiiyak na ko. so last night we had an argument. a simple argument lng naman that can be fix easily. All I have to do is suyo lng naman. but after her tone changes nanaman. I felt tired. nawalan ako ng lakas or gana kausapin sya. the nanumbat nanaman sya na pag sinusuyo nya daw ako hindi sya ganon. thats what triggers me. hindi ko pa na experience masuyo ng maayos in the last 3 years na yun. hindi nya pa ko nasuyo ng hindi ako ung nag sosorry at the end. sobrang drained na ko. gusto ko syang kausapin na right now kaso ayoko na ng ganto. I'm so tired of trying for our relationship. sorry for poor contructing of my post, first time kasi HAHAH