I ended up my dating phase with someone when February started. Mainly because she likes making me wait. For example, sasabihin nya we meet at 9pm pero she would show up at 11. Nagmemessage naman sya na sorry something came up/traffic etc. The first time it happened, pinalampas ko kasi meron naman kaming usapan na sabi nya it wont happen again.

Then it happened another time where we were supposed to have lunch by 12 but she came at 3PM. So I told her sorry that I have to leave by 4PM kasi may errands ako pero I can extend a little naman. In a slight irritated tone, sabi nya "edi sana sinabi mo pala noong una pa lang para di na ko nagsayang ng oras pumunta". Medyo nashock ako don. Niyaya ko na lang syang mag lunch the next time kasi nalipasan na ako ng gutom.

Sinabi ko lahat sa kanya with all respect pero di nya matanggap yon. Sabi nya she was testing me daw how far can I understand her sa bagay bagay dahil ayaw nya daw ng guy na di understanding. I told her na ayaw ko din ng girl na hindi nirerespeto ang oras ko. I can wait kung talagang valid pero turns out sinasadya nya pala talaga.

Ngayon I see her posting about sobrang broken nya because I left her daw. Pinaasa ko daw sya. Fake green flag daw. Can pay on dates, can open doors, can talk with respect but cant stay daw and be true to words daw.

I muted her socials na lang. Lagi syang late at lagi nyang sinasabi na sorry babawi pero never syang bumawi in the course of 2 months dating.

Ayun lang offmychest lang. At sayo kung nandito ka, I hope you finally learn to respect people's time and emotions din di yung puro lang ikaw ang tama. Will always pray for you! Salamat sa pinagsamahan.