Hey everyone, we are a younger couple from the GTA and we have recently decided that we would like to try an mff scenario (doesn’t everybody lol) but nonetheless, we’re going to give it a try. We have made posts on some of the other forums as well as some LS dating apps. But we are finding we are being bombarded by connections We are not currently looking for i.e. single M and couples Who have no interest playing separately.
we have considered trying some of the LS clubs, but our main concern is it’s hard enough to filter through tons of personal messages and ignore the ones that don’t interest us let alone in person
if a single M or a couple approaches at the club and we are not interested or we are only interested in the F part of the couple. How do we convey this without seeming like assholes and totally blowing people off or insulting them or worse having them tie up our entire night so we don’t have the time to find what we are actually looking for
maybe we are overthinking this, but we are just hoping someone has a suggestion to maximize our likelihood of connecting with a single F any advice helps thank you very much
I feel like I am too nice sometimes but I will talk to people (couples, single M's). If they ask, I just say I'm not interested or no thank you but with a smile. If they keep trying then I remind them of the rules of the club. It took time to build this up. I never played with anyone I didn't want to, but I felt pressure in the beginning and played with people who were persistent even though I felt no connection. Lessons were learned and if I still want to feel good about myself after it's better for everyone to advocate for yourself. Nobody wants to be a pity fuck either.
No not at Oasis. At M4 I had single guys actually jump on the bed and try to join in without permission
Bathroom or getting another drink works. You can just get water. But being more direct is always better.
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Thankfully there was a really nice man and his wife there and we had already discussed before I went back to play that he would reiterate my "nos" for me. So he stopped fucking his wife to say it for me again. I stopped going to that event because of that though. I now never go to the play area alone.