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Hey single male (25) went last weekend Sunday night. I was wearing gold glasses and a black hat with a muscular plus chubby physique if any1 remembers me! Feel free to dm if you wanna chat

First off, the entrance is located in a pretty private area, even if you work/school/live downtown, there shouldn't be a lot of people seeing you enter/exit if that is a concern to you.

Upon arrival I got read the rules then given a tour of the facility. The first floor consists of the bar and lounge area, the hot tub and the pool. Drinks were reasonably priced, it was 12$ for a rum and coke including a 20% tip. You were also given a voucher for a free drink or soda which I also used.

The hot tub is fairly small, fits maybe 8 people comfortably. Pretty warm but nothing spectacular. There was a hot black girl that had the attention of most of the dudes in the hot tub, they were having fun conversations that I was too shy to join (I'm just really shy overall, there was no intimidation going on or anything). Nothing physical going on as sex is not allowed in the hot tub I believe. One thing to note is that the water got really dirty at one point and a worker came and told us to get out the hot tub and take a shower because the filter broke, but I don't think that happens often, just bad luck.

The pool is amazing, probably one of the main attractions of oasis in my opinion. Very spacious and well heated. It's outdoors so the contrast of the cold weather plus warm water is very therapeutic. I was just relaxing in the pool for a while with a drink in my hand, almost fell asleep at one point because of how relaxed I was. There were a lot of people in the pool. Most were in small groups of like 5-6 that each had atleast a couple women in each group. There were also solo people chilling by themselves like me. There were also maybe 2-3 couples just making out and focusing on themselves. I didn't really talk to anyone at the pool for the most part until this really sweet girl from one of the groups started talking to me a bit which was fun. The problem is that I'm not really good in group settings or group conversations so I remained kinda quiet just relaxing in the pool. A while later another girl from a different group started talking to me who was really sweet but again I don't feel that comfortable in a group setting and I'm kinda awkward so the conversation fizzled out. Overall the experience was nice but you need strong social skills and being comfortable in a group setting to make the most of the experience. I smoked a lot of weed before going which probably wasn't the best idea because it makes me a little nonverbal sometimes.

The second floor consists of the locker room, the dungeon and the ball room where events are held. You get your own locker key you can wear on your wrist.

My favourite part of oasis was the dungeon. When I first arrived at the dungeon there was a really hot girl fat ass big titties laying on her stomach getting fingered by (her man?) while tied/locked to the machine. This was actually crazy hot, its was similar to the type of porn I watch so seeing it in person was quite the experience. A while later there was a girl tied up to the (cross?) while another girl was spanking her and kissing her butt. The butt kisses were super hot.

I missed the event in the ball room and there wasn't much going on in there.

Couldn't enter the third floor as a single male, and I didn't really talk to many people so I never had to opportunity to accompany anyone so I can't comment on anything about that floor.

Overall it was a positive experience. The age ranges were pretty diverse I saw maybe a couple girls in their early 20's all the way up to maybe 50's? Body types were very diverse also. Some very very hot bodies. There was a (hispanic?) girl in a black hat that was crazy hot. Black couple where the woman had an insane butt. Bodybuilder Asian couple also.

Will I go back? Tbh not sure. I realized I'm a bit too shy and reserved for this type of environment as a single male. I wasn't really sure how to break into the already established groups that I seen, and also no one was really making eye contact with me. There was this 1 super hot girl in a greenish (mesh?) bathing suit that made eye contact with me a few times that I really wanted to talk to but I'm too shy to just go up and introduce myself to someone and she was constantly surrounded by dudes so I didn't really wanna cockblock them either. Maybe I'll go back if I find someone to go with.

Just wanted to share my experience to anyone visiting this subreddit and undecided if they should go. It's a very nonjudgmental place to relax, but you definitely need to be a little extroverted and social as a single male if you want anything more than a nice view and place to relax. I already knew this was a weakness for me so I might go back just to work on my social skills and group conversations !