I’ve been to oasis a few times now and have had a lot fun just talking to people and enjoying the amenities but i can’t seem to get over the nervous feeling of being there.

I wouldn’t care about being nervous if it didn’t affect me when I get invited to the third floor. I’ve gone up a few times with some women and men (im a bi male) each time I’ve gone up I can’t seem to get into it if you know what I mean.

I also feel like when im there the last thing im thinking of is sex. It’s really weird, I go there and meet some gorgeous people, hit it off with some people I like but my mind is not thinking about fucking my mind is just thinking about how I’m nervous about being there.

Just wanted to see if anyone else resonates with this I can’t be the only one lol. I still love going, and will go more in the future just want to get past this feeling 😭