Guys, no DMs please. This post is exclusively seeking advice from other single ladies.

Hey girls! I (41F) usually go solo early in the evening, before the place is packed, so quite often there are no more than 3 or 4 women at the club.

Do you have any advice for ditching a man (or multiple men) who try to “get married” and follow you around non-stop at the club even after you say you want to chill and play with other people?

This happens quite often, and I honestly don’t know how to ask them to leave me alone without killing the vibe completely. Being sweet about it doesn’t seem to work.

The staff at club are always amazing and they help me out a lot. A LOT! But even with their help, some men just don’t understand.

Yesterday I ended up being super rude to 2 guys after they wouldn’t let me breathe for hours, and finally said “darlings, there is no use in following me around, I won’t be fucking you tonight”. I didn’t raise my voice or anything, but they immediately got super defensive and basically told me to fuck off.

So here is my question: how can you be firm and clear without getting into confrontation?