Never have I ever been to a swinger club or been involved with the lifestyle in anyway beyond porn. However my girlfriend suggested we check this place out and I want to have the most realistic expectations. I’m a 30M she’s 32F, she’s actually been here before and has friend involved with this lifestyle.
My concerns: first off I’m concerned about feeling out of place in a strange environment, also worried I might actually be turned off by it in reality, I’m worried we might attract too much attention and feel harassed. Should I be worried?
However I do think I want to try an participate in the activities, is there courteous way to have sex in front of people? Do we just do it 🤷🏾♂️. Is there a status quo for sex or some norms we should conform to? Can sex be obnoxious? And if my dick is out, is it rude to be hard all the time ?
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