I’ve been debating going to check out Oasis for quite some time as a single woman, but have felt a little self conscious as a larger woman. The thought of wearing skimpier clothing in public like that kind of terrifies me. And I’d like to go on a night when single men are allowed, as I’m not really looking to play with a couple at the moment. From my understanding the single men there can get kind of thirsty, so I’d like to avoid dealing with those men who are just looking to hook up with anyone they can. I’d be hoping to find someone who actually finds my body type attractive, without being too much of a fetish. I realize this might be too much to ask, any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Well that’s good for you, but that’s not a step I can take at the moment for various reasons. I also find that there are plenty of men who actually like larger women, maybe more women than like men who aren’t fit, I don’t know. My main concern is not having to deal with anyone overly creepy or overly judgmental, as your comment seemed to be.
Thank you so much, I just might do that, once I narrow down a night I’d like to go.
Good to know, thank you. I am definitely a little bit hesitant about going on a Saturday night anyhow.
That’s really helpful to know, thank you. I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with people being rude or being ignored. That’s the kind of thing I’m worried about dealing with as well, but I know I need to develop a thicker skin if I’m going to put myself out there like that.
Thank you for the advice, easing into it like that does makes sense.
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I’ve never gone, so have no idea how welcome I would actually feel there. I have no problems finding men who are attracted to me, your comment is rude and unnecessary.