So many posts about first timing, I’ve read through it all but was looking for info/reassurance. MF (43/40) couple ready to visit for the first time after talking about for for years! Wife has exhibitionist kink and would like to perform in front of others. Not looking for anyone to join. Few questions:

1. Wife doesn’t drink, does the bar offer mocktails etc?
2. Will we feel like “fresh meat”walking in? Just want to feel the place out and see if the vibes are right.
3. Are there any unwritten/assumed rules newbies should be aware of? Pitfalls to avoid, courtesies, etc? For example personal space, cleanup of “messes” afterwards, etc.
4. Have read reviews on past of a fair bit of single men being there, wife is very ok with people watching as is husband, but husband doesn’t necessarily like being center of attention

Any feedback would be welcome and reassuring!