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First Time Experience as a Solo Male - 28 M South Asian, Join me next time?
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OkAppointment5610 is in Toronto
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This is a recount of my experience. I went here on a whim at about 1 am today, and left at 2 am to go to the gym. So this may not be what you guys might expect, since the time scale was short.

So my mindset coming into it, wasn't to get laid, or have sex, if it happens great, but I wasn't expecting it. I came in and at first I thought I would be intimidated by a bunch of guys being overly muscular but I was wrong. Their was a lot of diversity in the males there. I wouldn't say all different body types, but from average to fit, would be what I saw.

I walked in and saw a ratio of men to women of 4:1, at least that's how it felt. Their are guys who are fully naked, and so are women, but not the majority of them, but the majority where in towels. I was fully clothed, since I came here to just experience the vibe.

I spoke to a couple of guys (that were clothed, or had a towel), I dont know if I could have a conversation with a guy whos naked, that's just outside my comfort zone, but you do you. And the guys were cool, we started doing a push up contest near the stripper pole.

I was going to the gym later at night, so thought I could use this as an opportunity to get a quick pre workout in. The guys were extremely chill, (the 2 I spoke to). One of them told me that this one girl was looking at me, and was waiting for me to approach, but I didnt realize this since I was trying to be respectful and only approach a girl that gives me a signal (that I can understand) to approach her. I didnt want to make anyone uncomfortable.

The reason I approached another male, was because I didnt want to just sit there in case an opportunity to connect with a girl didnt came up. It felt like the right call forsure.

I am a pretty confident dude, so this was a environment I was comfortable with. The price was a bit steep, given the fact I was only there for about an hour.

Id like to go again, during the day time this time to see what the vibe is. I saw a few girls that were sitting by them self, awkwardly. I think the right approach is to definitely go with a partner that you can fill the silence with.

I plan to go again today, during the evening to see how it goes, if any girls want to join me, send me a message. The main benefit is, we can keep each other company incase it gets quiet, and getting to know each other a bit before we go in, will let us warm upto each other.

Thanks for reading.

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