Hi community, my FWB and I are thinking of going to Oasis. We are actually looking for a third (F only) to join in our fun times for FFM or FMF if she's into me too. This will be our first time if we do actually decide to go.

What are the rules when it comes to men approaching the female half? Are men very persistent there? If she was to decline a man, would he leave her alone or keep trying? I reckon men there would be somewhat persistent given the fact that people are there for the same reason as us and that the environment is a little more forgiving in that regard?

She really wants to hit it off with another woman. Can she make it known somehow that she is only there for women?

Sorry these may be dumb questions and Oasis may not be the right club for us after all. Just exploring some possibilities. Thanks in advance.