My trans bf and myself (nonbinary/agender but present masculine) went for the first time on Sunday after the pow wow at fort York Saturday and walking from Bathurst station to the fort and back to Bathurst station afterwards and weeks/months of deliberation on which bathhouse to visit.

We arrived a little after 3pm. Got told the rules of the club, checked in and got a tour by, iirc, Danni? I'm sorry if I got her name wrong. All the staff are super friendly and most seem to be some flavour of queer or at the very least are 100% queer friendly. They allowed us both in under their transgender pricing, which is nice for trans folk.

After our tour and a quick stop at our locker and a smoke out front, we hit the sauna and the hot tub and met some cool, nice people. We then proceeded to explore the club a bit and made some more friends. We tried the stripper pole in the bar and Nico gave us a free drink ticket for that, which we wound up giving to a birthday girl later on in the evening.

We had some fun in the shaggin wagon. That's a little too high up if you're not tall and it's a little too shallow to get comfortable properly as well, unless you're on the petite side.

The pool is nice. The atmosphere is really chill. They play a variety of music throughout the day. We got to watch a burlesque show and drag performance at 10pm in the ballroom. All the performers were amazing but I feel bad for forgetting their names, minus Lulu, the drag performer.

We also wound up having a hot couple shack up next to us at the one point and fuck beside us, which was really hot. Though, they decided to have a loud conversation right next to us while we were still playing with one another so that was kind of annoying, though the music was also really loud as well, but it seems guests can turn the speakers down a bit if it's too loud, though I'm not sure if anyone is comfortable to do so themselves lol

Overall, it was a really great experience!! We will be returning again before pride is over and attending again for my Boyfriend's birthday on July 18th (if anyone wants a chance at a trans male and his holes for his bday!). I definitely recommend Oasis to anyone who wants to explore sexuality without any expectations of sex at all and somewhere where consent is followed strictly as well as if you just want to explore your own identity without fear of being judged by anyone.