I’m a gay man (23), been in a relationship for little more than 9 months. I love my boyfriend so much, we bonded a lot in such a short time and I want to be with him. The problem is, I’ve always flirted with the idea of having sex with other people occasionally, or even just having threesomes, while he’s super jealous and doesn’t like the idea at all. I admitted to him that I feel sexual attraction towards other people and the idea of having sex with him and some other guy at the same time would really turn me on, cause there is no point in hiding how I feel, but I don’t want to do anything that he doesn’t consent to. I don’t think I feel this way because of something that’s lacking in our relationship, we have amazing sex and I think he’s the hottest guy on earth. But sometimes I just feel these pangs of lust towards other guys and I really feel the need to scratch that itch. An open relationship would solve that, since we’re also long distance, but he obviously doesn’t want that. Everytime I feel this way I just wait for it to go away, but what if someday I slip up for some reason? I’m really afraid of hurting his feelings because I love him very much. What would you do in my place?