I've been in the lifestyle since 2019, on and off. My journey started with a wife. I thought she was a single woman, but she later informed that she was married and a part of a couple. We chatted and she asked me if it would be something I would be interested in, I told her as long as there's no male on male, I would be. Well, y'all scheduled never aligned for all of us to meet, so it ends up just being me and the wife, with the husband about. The experience with her gave my first insight of the lifestyle. I saw her for awhile until I moved for a better job. After, her, I met with my first couple, a stag and vixen, my experience with them gave me an understanding of the psychology bonding between the couple. I thought it was all about the wife having fun, but I learned the husband can enjoy the experience as well. I wa learned that there are many levels of play and different relationships dynamics. I've been looking for a cuckold couple but it seems that must are looking for a bi guy and I don't do male on male. I have some fun ideas for the night couple. I think cuckolding should be fun even without sex, or before.