Hi all. Would like to ask for some etiquette advice.

My (M) wife (F) and I have just started going to our local nude beach. In last 7 weeks we have been 5 times. I initiated the first time, then wife actually said 'let's go back'! So now it's a thing for us.

For me personally, someone who has been relatively sheltered body wise and now that I'm a bit older but in better shape, etc I have the confidence and also the who gives a f attitude. It's just very freeing and relaxing. Worst part is getting dressed to come home. :)

But I have an etiquette question. Should you comment on others?

Yesterday...single guy (late 50's?) wearing a thong was near us in the ocean. My wife had to get out of the water as our umbrella fell over.....as she was going he said to me somewhat loudly 'awesome view; Tan lines are very s$xy'. Thought this was kinda odd/off-putting. I got out to go help my wife (and probably to move away).

Two others times

1) Sand is f hot as f right now. We have a 10x10 shade so sand much cooler underneath. Guy (Nude) stopped by and offered for him to take a break and step on the shady sand. Imagine both of us in low chairs, and him kneeling. He looked at my junk twice, then checked out my wife. He also said 'what are you guys into'.....I figured that was code for LS (which we are not)>

2) Another single male yesterday was just roaming the beach (his setup was close to ours) but was way too much gawking. Like the whole time....like ok, take a peek, then move along.

3) Another couple...but has nothing to do us.......playing loud music (like we all really wanted to hear their stuff!?) grabs her hubby's private right then and there. Watched them leave...she was stumbling so obviously very drunk.

4) Another couple....2 times ago......had their tent setup then he started bodypainting her. Sounds like a fun thing to do, but here?

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To be clear...we have had 'nude' conversations with others including single guys...no problem. It's just when something feels 'off'

To us, we 'think' the beach is supposed to be non sexual (obviously you can't fight the 'freeing energy' which is awesome lol, as it has turned into some good stuff...but AT HOME.

Curious your thoughts/interactions/guidance to newbies.

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