(I hope I got that tag right, call me stupid, but didn't find the explanations.)I only just discovered this kind of subreddit actually exists, and I've been looking for a game that leans into the NSFW side of things. I even posted something similar in more 'SFW' spaces, but felt like I was skating on thin ice.

That said, after scrolling through some posts here, it seems like many of you might be too horny for what I’m after. It feels like people are just looking for a game centred around 'sex for the sake of sex.' I mean, I literally saw someone mention "playing with dick in hand." That's a hard (pun intended) no from me.

I'm looking for a serious, hopefully long-term game where narrative and story are the focus. I want a small, tight-knit group, max 3 players and 1 GM. Who are passionate about creating something meaningful. But, and here’s where the NSFW part comes in, I do think sex scenes should be a thing, and the NSFW aspect can be a cornerstone of the experience. It just shouldn’t be the only thing or the primary focus.

To clarify:

• By gay male minded, I don’t mean a game where everyone is full-on RuPaul or Bayonetta, acting like a total diva. A sassy character is welcome, as long as there’s depth beyond just that. Wanna play a drag queen? Go for it. Femboy or trap? Sure. My main point is, when it comes to erotica, I’d prefer the focus to stay on male bodies and male body parts. So, no women’s breasts, or vulvas for example.
• Furries? That’s open for discussion. Let’s talk about how far you want to go with those animalistic or bestial traits and how it fits the group dynamic when it forms.
• No play-by-post, except maybe for downtime RP. Discord (voice) for the main sessions, with a VTT for visual aids or combat if necessary.
• I’m open to different systems (D&D, World of Darkness, Cyberpunk, SoIaF, etc.), I'm still flexible if the right group forms.
• Ideally, I’m looking for weekly sessions, with Thursday or Sunday afternoons (CET) being the most convenient for me, but I’m open to adjusting based on the group’s availability.
• Theatre kids? Hell yeah, you're more than welcome.
• Players should be very capable of drawing a hard line between character and player, and handling the emotional and narrative complexity that comes with that.
• I have some ideas and wishes for themes and genres but will shape that based on the group dynamic.
• If a DM picks this up and needs help with worldbuilding or wants to offload some of the work, I’m happy to assist, let me emphasise: only if they want me to.

If you're into a balance of storytelling, character development, and a mature edge without making it all about the smut all the time, then let’s talk!