Hello! I've been on and off here for a little while now. I've found short term connections, met some good people, but the allure just keeps bringing me back to try and find what's missing at home. I'll spare you those details and focus on what I'm looking for instead.

Since I've been on here, I've grown to really like the idea of having a secret person that's all my own. There's something so hot about sneaking away just to steal a moment together, or to send a message or a picture. I love knowing that we're thinking about each other when we shouldn't be.

I know need a connection for it to be fulfilling. Voice notes, video calls, all the cute stuff. Someone to say good morning and good night to, that will send me a funny picture or a meme because they were reminded of me. Who doesn't love a little romance from time to time?

So — I'm 33 from the East Midlands in the UK. I have dark hair, blue eyes, a beard and tattoos. I'm a musician and creative type that's into pretty much anything artsy. I love films, TV shows, gaming, reading, theatre — anything nerdy really. Also very into cooking and going to the gym these days.

I'm pretty kinky, dominant and am into a lot of different things: orgasm control, edging, light BDSM, restraints, blindfolding, and much, much more. Rougher things aren't off the table. And I truly cannot resist a great ass.

I'd love to meet someone I can talk to, have fun and build a connection with — ideally long term, not just during working hours. Someone I can get excited to talk to and hear from, and hopefully meet if possible. A dirty little secret of my own that I can adore and then treat like a good little slut.

If that sounds like you, send me a message or a chat request and we can figure out where to take the conversation if the vibe is good. Happy to share and exchange pics early on to see if there's an attraction.

Limits: toilet stuff, blood, permanent marks, ageplay. Probably some other obvious ones. The rest is up for discussion.