We are new to this and are looking for a single female or another couple, preferably from the Triad area, to play with. Please read through before contacting us. Yes, it's long. But there are specific things we have discussed and are interested in.

About us: We are a happily married couple with an active and adventurous sex life looking to explore. He is bi-curious, average build, clean shaven, tattooed, and is into sci-fi, music, and working with his hands. She is pansexual, curvy, tattooed, and is into fantasy, reading, and baking. Both of us are very open-minded and easy-going. We're somewhat shy and quiet at first, but we open up quickly with people we connect with.

What we're looking for: We want to find a bi or bi-curious female or couple to join us for some fun. We prefer people with average or curvy body types, but both find a wide range of people attractive. Race, assigned gender, etc does not matter to us. It is more important to us that you be confident, adventurous, hygienic, open-minded, non-judgemental, and easy going.

We would love to find a couple or an individual we connect with enough to hang out with. Game nights, camping trips, weekend trips to the mountains or the beach, etc. But we are also open to the occasional hookup until we've found our group.

We do have busy lives, so please don't expect us to be able to meet up on a moment's notice. We would like to chat first to make sure there is some sort of connection and attraction, then we can meet up and see where things end up. If things go well and we all connect and have fun, we are open to an ongoing relationship of some sort.

What's on the table: She is pan-sexual, mostly submissive or neutral, and is comfortable being with guys or girls. He's bi curious, a neutral-leaning switch, and would like to explore (potentially as a bottom) with a guy, but is more comfortable with girls. We are interested in same room only full swap, threesomes, and group sex. To begin with, the focus should be on her, especially for single males. Publicly appropriate PDA and flirting is welcomed on date nights. If we are comfortable with you and make this ongoing, we are open to exploring some kinkier things. We are open to sex on the first Date, but don't expect or assume it's going to happen.

Turn offs:

People who obsess over appearances

Racists, bigots, MAGA-hatters, etc.

Stereotypical "dudes": Neither of us are impressed by displays of "manliness". If you're that macho-man type that's fine, but you don't need to prove it to us or obsess over it.

Asking for nudes right away. We are happy to swap G-rated pictures early on.

Unsolicited dick pics

Fake/asshole "doms": a real Dom respects limits and needs of all parties and usually doesn't need to announce they are a Dom.

Hard Rules:

Same room only

All conversations are visible to both of us

All partners must be clean

Condoms are required for all play other than oral. (We can discuss this again further if it becomes a regular thing)

Solo males must be single

All partners must be sober during meet-ups (one or two drinks to help relax is fine, but no drugs)

First meeting must be on neutral ground

RESPECT ALL PARTNERS BOUNDARIES

Still reading? Still interested? Drop us a message and let's chat! Make sure to include a G-rated picture of yourself (both of you for couples). If we're interested we'll be sure to send one back with our reply.